What are 20 harsh life lessons everyone should learn in their 20s? by Max Lukominskyi https://www.quora.com/What-are-20-harsh-life-lessons-everyone-should-learn-in-their-20s/answer/Max-Lukominskyi-1?srid=FstH&share=71065aa7
“DESIRES” are main source of Misery. Here We can say Desires means Expectations (somewhat over). No one in the World may not have any Desire. That’s why many people are miserable (unhappy) with their Life.
What is there in our desires that’s making Us Unhappy and Upset….
Lets Find out…!!!
Desires are Endless. They never Ends and never stops. We always expect something from someone.
We expect love from beloved ones, we expect fun from friends, sympathy from relatives, and Success from what work we are Doing.
What Happens If we Don’t get what we expect.. What we Desires..
We become Upset.
When I got less Marks in JEE, I lost my expectations from myself,
My parent’s Desires/expectations.
As a Result I was very Upset and Sad….
I thought that why I am upset right now after the results also…. I GOT ANSWER.. That I didn’t Get Marks According to The Expectations.
SOLUTION ON THIS..
Very Simple Solution is there
Just Try To Minimize the Desires/Expectations.
But This does not mean that you should not expect but you should be satisfied with what you having.
i will share some of my views… I am damn
Tired of Futile Race.
Man is working, performing any work just for Money. This is making him/her more close to money and a far apart from Real Satisfaction & Happiness.
For the last few days, I am in dilemma that for what should I work, I thought a lot on this Topic which is going to be the moto of my Life..
And I got the answer that
I will work only for Satisfaction
Because you cannot have sleep at night coz of money But only because of the satisfaction of the work you did in whole day. I found that happiness is temporary but Satisfaction is lifelong.
It’s really a good idea for getting peace in life.
Don’t forget that peace and Happiness are two different things.
Happiness can be obtained by money but you cannot get peace by Money or by being Happy.
Happiness is temporary but the peace of mind is permanent.
You can say peace of mind is Satisfaction…
When you go to any restaurant, you eat anything which you like.
You feel happy that you are eating your favorite dish in hotel. But you will get more happiness and satisfaction in giving the same food to the poor hungry begger.His expressions will give you a real kind of satisfaction you need of.
So in search of peace, i started my journey along with my best friends Books.
I thought what will happen if someone is not having peace of mind in his life…
Then i observed some peoples.
I talked with them (a general talk).
I spend some time with them.
Then i realised that they are deceiving their heart by pretending like to be satisfied.
This will only show other people that he is happy but from mind he is just thinking about What should i do to have a satisfying Feeling.
As many people are busy with their own life they don’t give importance to this.
But when they start rethinking about their life. They see that..
Their Page of Life is totally Blank.
They have added only happiness to it which does not fill any colour to it…..
Think on it
And tell me that upto this moment how many of your actions /works had given you a Life Time satisfaction……